My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

So, don't try to compete with them.

Instead, focus on taking care of, solving and healing what you are experiencing right now.

This is why comparing yourself to them in terms of the healing process isn't going to help you in any way, shape or form.

Atheists who said that reading the Bible made them an atheist, how? Literally there are millions of people who read the Bible daily and still believe in God. So why say that? I mean unless you want to sound smart & edgy

I.e. you thought that you had the perfect deal whereas they had already made up their mind and just weren't as emotionally invested in it as you were.

You both are on polar opposites of the scale.

What they do doesn't matter and it's completely irrelevant to your healing process, though it’s valid to hate and judge them harshly for leaving the way they did.

I think that being gay is wrong, but I treat gay people respectfully like any other person. Is it homophobic? Or offensive in any kind of way? Aren’t disagreement and discrimination two different things?

This is why you can't expect them to feel anything close to what you're feeling right now, because you and them are on a completely different stage in the healing process.

And during this process, they either started seeing someone new who they planned to secure as their rebound option or were busy creating their post-breakup plan.

On their side, there has been a process of emotionally and mentally checking out while you were still together and while you were under the impression that everything is cool.

Why is it that when the Democrats absolutely love everyone to be LGBTP, they don't even acknowledge that Barack Obama and his husband Big Mike are homosexual, and he is the first homosexual president of the USA?

This happened long or shortly before they physically left.

Simply put, because they have been prepared and you weren't.

My ex moved on so fast. How can I overcome the pain?

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